Page 1 Page 2 Page 3 Page 4 Page 5 Page 6 Page 7 Page 8 Page 9 Page 10 Page 11 Page 12 Page 13 Page 14 Page 15 Page 16 Page 17 Page 18 Page 19 Page 20 Page 21 Page 22 Page 23 Page 24 Page 25 Page 26 Page 27 Page 28 Page 29 Page 30 Page 31 Page 32 Page 33 Page 34 Page 35 Page 36 Page 37 Page 38 Page 39 Page 40 Page 41 Page 42 Page 43 Page 44 Page 45 Page 46 Page 47 Page 48 Page 49 Page 50 Page 51 Page 52FOCUS - SEPTEMBER 2016 19 • Furniture • Flooring • Mattresses • Window Coverings • Appliances • Accessories OMESTEAD HFURNITURE & APPLIANCES HARDWOOD & LAMINATE FLOORING • WINDOW COVERINGS 1918 Scugog Street, Port Perry (across from Vos’) • 905-985-2451 @HomesteadFnA If you’re interested in learning more information about the Big Brothers Big Sisters mentoring programs, please call Cheryl Holmes at 905-985-3733 ext 2, or visit www.BigBrothersBigSisters.ca/ NorthDurham September is Big Brothers Big Sisters Month The BBBS flag will be flying high at the Scugog Township office the first two weeks of September. arg and Cody’s story is truly inspiring. They were first matched back in 2000, when Cody was just 10 years old and Marg was old enough to be his grandmother. But despite the age difference between the pair,theirrelationshipblossomedright after they met. Flash-forward 16 years, and Marg and Cody still have a really special relationship. So special, in fact, that last year Cody moved in with Marg and her husband Roger, and he refers to Marg as his “grandma”. Their relationship has been differ- ent than most matches since the very beginning. Cody was a sweet, kind, sensitive young boy who loved hav- ing an adult friend to hang out with just him for an hour every week. Marg, who is a very kind and caring woman, got along with Cody right off the bat. They talked, drew pictures, painted, played cards, and made up fun games. Marg and Cody’s In-School men- toring match was closed when Cody finished grade 7 but their relationship didn’t stop there. They continued to see each other outside of school, and soon became a part of each other’s families. Marg would watch Cody’s hockey games and take him to base- ball games and wrestling matches and Cody would spend time at Marg and Roger’s cottage. Cody only has nice things to say about Marg and how she’s affected him. “She’s been a constant presence in my life. To this day she’s one of the only people I can count on.” Marg and Roger have mentored many in their lives and they’ve invited quite a few non-family members to live with them over the past 40 years, so it’s really no surprise that Marg’s non-biological Little Brother now lives with her and her husband in Port Perry. Roger has also become an unof- ficial mentor to Cody over the years, and Cody looks up to him a lot, too. Marg acknowledges that Cody wasn’t the only one getting something out of their match. “It’s very reward- ing to see someone grow up and do well, when it could have gone so dif- ferently,” says Marg. Cody says that he thinks his life would have been “1,000% different” if he had never met Marg. He admits he got into some trouble in high school and knew he was going down a bad path but when he decided to change his ways, it was partially due to the fact that he didn’t want to disappoint Marg and Roger. Marg has encouraged Cody to continue his education, and he has plans to attend Durham College in the fall for the Fitness and Health Promotion program. Marg is so proud of the young man Cody has become. They both agree that Marg gave him confidence, and by supporting him in whatever he did, she has helped shape him into the person he is today. By Krista Webb, Special to Focus on Scugog Photo by Daniel Cullen Meet a Match: Cody & Marg of North Durham Region of North Durham Region of North Durham Region of North Durham Region of North Durham Region of North Durham Region Celebrating 40 Years